Does the word arranged marriage bring nightmares in your life? Are you someone who is looking for a fairytale romance but not ready to take the big leap of arranged marriage? If you can relate to our questions, then welcome to our post dearie.
Maybe this post would make you think on why aren’t you still ready for a wedding or why arranged marriage makes you say a BIG NO.
We understand that arranged marriage is completely a faith leap that you have to take in your life and the mere thought of marrying a stranger irks you.
But when you enter into a relationship with zero expectation, you would only be rewarded with happiness (could be difficult to accept).
Trust us, we would be delighted to see you settle with the man of your dreams. And that is why we decided to help our lovely readers to find the Mr.Right of their life.
Ok, so how can just one meeting decide that this is the one? We know that is impossible, but if you find a connection, then go for it!
Look out for the listed aspects in the guy, and if you find these in a guy, then start dreaming about your honeymoon with your Mr.Perfect 😛
1. Ready for commitment:
When your parents ask you to look for grooms, you would find many guys not ready for commitment- walk past them. The wedding should be a person’s individual decision, and neither a family’s compulsion. Marry someone who is ready for the big leap, who is ready to adapt to new changes in his life (both good and bad).
2. Absolute connection:
We are talking about an intense connection, that you feel the very first time you meet. It happens with many people, that you look into the eyes and feel he is the one, or the feeling of knowing him for eons (sounds filmy?).
Yet, if you feel this, then you can definitely take a step forward into the relationship. But if you don’t feel this way, don’t ignore, check out for our the other aspects 🙂
3. Is he your partner in crime:
Life is too short to be serious. If he is the guy who makes you laugh and creates an aura of happiness, then this might be a sign. In your hectic and challenging life, you need a person with a humorous side, someone that eases your stress levels.
4. Respects your dreams:
This is an important factor while marrying any guy- he RESPECTS your dreams and you. Don’t put up with someone who shows his male chauvinism, you are not made for that.
We all need a person who motivates us to follow our dreams. Life would become simpler when you have a person who becomes the anchor of your life!
5. A heart to heart talk:
So after a few meets, have you started discussing everything with him? Does he sound interested in your life? If yes, then wow lucky you!
It is important in a relationship to have deep conversations- this would help in understanding each other’s perspective, likes and dislikes (very important for a balanced marital life).
6. Not a drop of insecurity:
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have a partner who has blind faith in you? If you find a guy who has a clear head with no air of doubts and insecurity, then hold him tight and don’t let him go. Same goes for you, develop a trust and talk out your heart and mind and let the insecurities vanish off like a bubble.
When there are no insecurities, there would be no war of words, no explanations, no ego clashes and life would be a bliss.
7. Gives you your space:
No matter how much you love your partner, it is important to give each other a personal space. You don’t need a man who keeps questioning you when you are without your girls or about your whereabouts.
A nosy man is a big no no. You need to have time for yourself and if your partner gives you that, then amazing.
8. Makes you feel worthy and important:
‘You are the best thing that happened to me’, ‘I feel lucky to have you’ if a guy says such lines or does things that make you the center of his life, then sweetie he is the one. If he does something sweet or out of the way, then understand the signs that you mean very important to him.
9. Shares his decisions with you:
If you are very important to him, then he would share everything with you. Feel blessed if he shares all his work issues and listens to your perspective too before taking any big decision.
10. Your family becomes his:
It takes a big deal to accept someone’s parents as their own. If he easily gels with your family and becomes the apple of everyone’s eye, then start accepting it as after the wedding he would be pampered more than you.
11. Loves you for who you are:
No matter how you look, what you wear, he unconditionally loves you (you are a lucky star). Accepting your personality and thought process is an important factor after all you have to spend the entire life with him.
12. Changes from I to WE:
He thinks for both of you. Be it career decisions or a party with friends, if he brings you also in the picture, that means he considers you equally important and now thinks as WE.
If you are getting these signs from the guy, then lady you about have a blissful life ahead. Hold him and don’t let him go anywhere. And if you aren’t getting signs, then we hope you get your Mr.Perfect soon.
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